PRIVATE SESSIONS The Importance of a Personal Practice In order to effectively and safely embody and channel the powerful energies that these Tantric practices awaken from dormancy, a regular, individualized yoga practice is needed. We will work together to create a practice that embraces and supports all aspects of your being. Tantra means 'to weave.' In Evolutionary Eros, through these Yogic and Tantric practices, we weave together loose strands of ourselves into an integrated tapestry of self-realization. Those aspects of ourselves that have been banished or exaggerated gain proportion and balance. We experience, we embody Eros as the energy of ourselves, of ongoing creation manifesting through us, moment to moment.
Part of the Way of Tantra is becoming aware of, with increasingly deep compassion, and healing the wounding many of us have suffered from our societal conditioning and religious training. Evolutionary Eros is dedicated to freeing ourselves, individually and collectively, from the tyranny of guilt and shame which has permeated and infiltrated our erotic love lives.
What would an Evolutionary Eros lesson be like? What would we do? What others are saying... Following is a list of TANTRIC TOOLS that may be used in a lesson. Everyone is different, with different desires and needs. Every lesson is created anew with each individual. Relaxation: The Root Practice Yoga Postures: Solo & Partnered Breath Sounding and Silence, Mantra Movement and Stillness Meditation: Process of Purification, Cleansing, and Inner Silence, The Flow of Bliss Touch: Safe Space - Clear, Agreed-Upon Boundaries Holding and Hugging: Cellular Holding - The Cellular Seed of Tantra, Unconditional Presence without expectation. The Nourishment of Preverbal and Non-Verbal Embodied Consciousness, The Primacy of Touch/Movement: the Foundation of the Senses Conscious Nudity: Body Image, Diversity of Shape and Size, The Continuum of Clothing, "Sky-Clad" Gazing, Being Gazed Upon: Permission to Look and to Be Seen Permission to Feel Sensations and Emotions Dancing Dialoguing Drawing Deep Listening Role Play: The Fluid Flow of Gender, Character, and Identity. Rescripting, Reframing. Expanding Erogenous Zones: Every cell, The Eros of Breath The Allowed Breath. Repatterning Limiting Habits, Reducing Hidden Tension. Reclaiming areas that were deemed "off limits" from conditioning. The Healing Power of Being Witnessed and Witnessing. Pelvic Pulsations: Pelvic Exercises for urogenital health, anal-rectal-digestive health, sexual-erotic-spiritual evolution. Root to Crown, Perineum to Palette. Selective Abstention: A Means of Energy Preservation and Cultivation, Brahmacharya Soothing the Senses. Sensory-Sensual Therapy including touch (massage and bodywork), movement (asana, vinyasa, sahaja yoga), taste (diet, ayurveda), smell (aromatherapy, pranayama), sound (nada yoga, mantra), and sight (yantra, gazing: drishti, tratak). Sensory Involution (Pratyahara) Acceptance and Forgiveness These Tantric Tools allow us to acknowledge and explore such TOPICS AND ISSUES as: Sexual Orientation - All are welcome. Coming Out: Should I come out? The Challenges, The Rewards Premature Ejaculation: supporting the ability to contain and sustain Difficulty Ejaculating: supporting the ability to release Impotence - Psychobiological limitation or a Case of Limited Thinking? The Continuum of Erotic Expression in the male body-mind, ranging from a subtle, internal suffusion of energy (yin) to an external, fiery arousal (yang). Affection, Tenderness, Touch, Sex, Love Intimacy - What is it? Body Image, Self-Image: Anorexia, The "Adonis Complex" Guilt and Shame, Sexual Sorrow/Sexual Healing: Individual and Collective, Personal and Ancestral. The Ground of Basic Goodness. Inner Smile. Witnessing. Reparenting. Touch Deprivation / Nourishing Touch. Self-Touch, Giving and Receiving Touch Affection Starvation / Affection Satiation Sexual Anorexia: Healing a Sense of Unworthiness, Rain in the Desert: Releasing the Elixir of Eros. Sexual Addiction/Compulsion as a Spiritual Calling in Disguise: What am I really longing for? The role of Yogic and Tantric practices in healing, in answering The Call. Am I hurting myself, and others? How do I stop, redirect? The Support of Solitude, The Support of Community: When to reach out, when to reach in. Cultivating Compassion. Pornography: What is Porn? What is Art? How does it affect me? Over stimulation of the Nervous System. Am I actually searching for affection, for living touch? Understanding the Development of the Senses: Touch and Movement as the primal foundation for the development of the other senses. What happens when we "lose touch" with ourselves and others and rely excessively on the visual sense? Celibacy, Monogamy, Polygamy, Promiscuity - What do I really want? How do my choices affect me? What are the risks? What are the rewards? The Path of Being Single, The Path of Being a Couple, The Role of Community/Group Flow and Friction: The Varied Dynamics of Intimate Relationship. Healing Homophobia - Individually and Collectively The gifts of the Two-Spirited Ones The Emergence of Ecstatic Bliss Allowing for the Ebb and Flow of Erotic Energy: Feeling erotic with and without erection The "Hypnoerotic Landscape": Betwixt and between erect and flaccid as potent territory of transformation Unity Through Diversity No previous experience is required, only an honest openness to learn and be present to yourself and others. Each man's individuality will be honored. No pyro-technical postures or partnering will be used that excludes anyone. Private Session Length 90 minutes - First-time appointments include an intake interview and are 90 minutes. All following sessions are also 90 minutes, unless you specifically request a 60 minute session beforehand when you schedule the appointment. Please inquire for current rates Kevin's Schedule

To contact Kevin with questions or to make an appointment, please call in Minneapolis: 612.203.4016; in New York: 917.671.6412, or email kevin@evolutionaryeros.com.